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We use ruler to do measurment, to find out the length of objects. And we have "rulers" in our minds too, we use them to make jugdement on people or things happened.

It's quite interesting that each one has his own unique "rulers"......

Some people who have high requirements on themselves may use a "harsh ruler" to judge a person, meanwhile some forgiving people may use a rather "soft ruler" to do a judgement on the same person.

So, we always encounter arguements because we all judge differently according to our own "rulers".

I find out that sometimes it's really a waste of time to convince other people since we don't have the same thought in most of the time,therefore i think all we can do is to respect each other's choices. If someone doesn't say the same "language" as you do, respect and save some time for your own.